Friday, May 25, 2012

the dreaded news

We received the bad news this morning at our 8 week appointment... Our little baby's heartbeat is no longer there...

S/he had grown 4 more days since last Friday. At this stage in the first trimester and based on last week's appointment, I can't say I was shocked... but was holding out so much hope.  We tried so hard- and we wanted and love that baby. It's been a long journey overall and we've already dealt with a major loss. We hadn't told anyone the news of our pregnancy yet. Going in for d & c tomorrow. We will be ok, I know that, but for right now my heart aches with sadness.

10 comments:

  1. So very sorry for your loss. I've been there...it's so hard. Hugs...

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  2. Popping over from Misconceptions about Conception to say how sorry I am to hear of your loss. I know all too well that even an early loss can be so hard to bear.

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  3. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Sending you stregth. Take care of youself and allow yourself time to be angry at the world. This sucks and just isn't fair. ((((((hugs))))))

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  4. I'm so sorry. So incredibly sorry.

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  5. I'm so sorry Cece. I know that even if you were expecting it to a degree, it doesn't squilch that tiny glimmer of hope. Praying for you.

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  6. i am so so sorry to read this news. sending you many thoughts and wishes.

    mo

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  7. I'm so very sorry Cece. Although most of us here have been there and understand what it's like, we're not going through it right now. It's a hard road to walk alone. Wishing peace and healing for you in the weeks ahead. *hugs*

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  8. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

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